A new urgency
Jenna’s request for support in the face of her terminal illness changed our dynamic, creating a new level of urgency and need. Jenna pleaded with me, “Emily needs someone to love her, someone she can trust.” I felt a wave of emotions – fear, responsibility, sympathy. I knew I had to make a choice that would change both our lives forever. I said quietly, “I’ll think about it.” I knew there was still a lot to discuss.

A new urgency
Application to adopt Emily
And Jenna asked me to adopt Emily. She expressed her despair about her daughter’s uncertain future in foster care. Tears were streaming down her face: “I can’t bear the thought of her ending up with strangers.” “Please, you’re the only other family.” The seriousness of her request hit me hard. Taking in a child was no small matter, and Jenna’s desperation exacerbated her plight.

Request for adoption from Emily